maybe i should give some background on my story... about M, my lover and the Rock, my husband, so you would understand better all my posts... promise, i will make it very brief and concise....
M was my ultimate crush when i was still single... The Rock was my best friend... we all belong to one circle of friends... M and the Rock are on the same Department and we are all in the same Company... M had an involvement with our other friend, OD... During that time, the Rock courted me... then our friend OD and M broke up... OD was still very much in-love with M when the break-up happened... M courted me, too, simultaneous with the Rock...
I was still crazy over M but the Rock was too kind and sweet and really a husband material... besides, i was thinking of OD... she was a close friend so i do not really want to hurt her...
So despite of my stronger feelings with M, i chose the Rock over him.... OD was grateful with my decision coz she still wants M back... but M doesnt want her anymore... after a few months, M had another girlfriend which we do not know... M got her pregnant and married her... OD was really devastated... and i became M's wife's friend...
2 years after, the Rock and I also got married... then i got pregnant... after i gave birth to my first child and after going back to work, M started courting me again without my husband's and his wife's (who is now my friend) knowledge... that was when i realized that my feelings for him have not changed... it is still as strong as before...
to make the story short, it became US... but our relationship was very platonic... at least during that time...
a year after, M met Cola, a new employee with a reputation of fucking anyone who ask her out... she's not very pretty but has a sexy body... and according to all the men she had made love with, she was so good in bed (i'm not!) ... may be the reason why men are drooling over her... including M... i found out that they, M and Cola, was in a relationship so i broke up with M...
finding out about their relationship and breaking up with him was the most painful thing i have ever felt... it really crushed me but i have to hide what i was feeling... nobody knows about my relationship with M... so you should know how difficult it was for me to carry all the hurt alone...
i had a problem with the Rock... for 11 months (since the day i gave birth), he never touched me... no sex at all... M started e-mailing me again and then we became friends until we got back together again... Cola and him are still sharing something special... but i accepted that because i realized i could not live without M... anyway, Cola could give him what i could not.... sex... im still afraid to do it with him during that time...
when M started sharing to me his problems about his nagging wife whom he confessed he really do not love, i also shared with him my problem regarding the Rock... (now, maybe you're getting the idea why i called him the Rock... he has no strong feelings sexually... he can stand without having sex for almost a year... now, dont blame me why i am in this relationship with M)...
after 11 months of no sex at all, the Rock made up with me... and that's how i got pregnant with my second child...
during that time, i still have no sexual relationship with M... it was still platonic... but our relationship did not end on my 2nd preganancy... it was still there until i came back to work...
M and i got even closer... and 6 months after giving birth to my 2nd child, we finally made love... and it was very much different with the sex i had with the Rock... the one with M was more satisfying and adventurous... the one with the Rock only lasted for 3 minutes and i never really felt satisfied.. i dont "come" with him... with M, 3 hours is not even enough....
but because M had a wife and i have my own husband and M was also involved with Cola, we never do "it" as often as we want... we have done it only thrice... but that 3 times was the best sex i ever had... and after doing it with me, M rarely go out with Cola anymore... they just talk thru e-mail... well, at least that's what i know...
and the Rock and I are still together... he still do not know about M and I... and i hope he would never know... i still do love him and i have no intention of leaving him... he's kind and a good husband (in some aspects) and a good father... but i also have my needs physically, emotionally and sexually, which he could not satisfy... and i also love M ... in a deeper and different manner...
so, basically, that's the story of Cola, M, the Rock and me...
i hope i was able to make you understand...
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You say your husband is a good man...you on the other hand are the most pathetic wife.
You stae you have your needs and that your husband cannot meet these needs so M does that.
How do you know your husbnand cannot meet your needs when you go elsewhere?
You need to come back to reality and realise what you are doing. You are potentially destroying many, many lives through your fantasty world.
Get your head out of the clouds!
this is terribly shameful!
Your pathetic !!!
ever considered a vibrator, that way you dont destroy a family, you dont teach your kids fuking behind ya old man back is okay and you wont be spreading your veneral deseases
Yes, you certainly did. You made me understand that you are a disgrace.
shattered,
i left a comment on your blog... i hope that by sharing my blogs to all your friends have gained you all the sympathy that you needed to make you feel better... i hope i have helped you unload the burdens you are carrying in your heart...
it was your opinion and i respect it... but you still dont know me so please do not judge my character as i was not judging yours...
not because you are the legal wife would mean that you are a better person than the other girl...
get real... your husband wont be cheating if you are perfect... there may be something wrong with you that you refuse to accept... look deep within you..
i still wish you well.. regards..
Anonymous,
i hope you visit my site again so you can read this reply to your comment...
i wont need a vibrator because i do not make with love with someone (or a thing) whom i do not have a feeling... i love the person that's why i gave myself to him...
and sorry, my dear... i do not have a V disease... have yourself checked... it was you who may have it...
Regards and i hope you'll be happy... i can sense your anger and loneliness on your comment...
and for you SOLARISGAL,
just go on comforting Mrs. Shattered... you need each other more...
Next time, try knowing a person first before telling him/her bad words... someone like you who judge a person thru his/her blog needs to have her mind checked...
i also wish you well and happiness.. regards..
Who the hell does shattered think she is putting a link to your blog? She knows nothing about you. I have posted a comment on her blog giving my thoughts. What a vindictive bitter person she must be.
No doubt she wont accept my comment. What a coward, sending her \"desperate housewifes\" over to The Lady\'s blog and when she receives some negative comments, she will make sure she moderates them and choose what to show.
Do you know what the last line of her post said before she changed it?
\"Go get her girls\"
No wonder her husband went elsewhere. Her marriage is doomed if this is the way she behaves. She needs to get a life and stop judging others.
im getting confused with the too many Anonymous posting comments... the first one seems to hate me while the latest one is fighting for me...
anyway, i'll call you good-anonymous...
good-anonymous,
thank you for understanding... you are correct... shattered chooses the comments to post... i left around 3 comments on her blog and she only approves the nicer one... maybe she doesnt want her friends to realize that i was correct... that she did that (linking my blog to her blog for her friends to see) because she needs sympathy... i told her that my blogs are free to read but she should be courteous enogh to ask permission before sharing it to her friends with bad judgement about me... that's almost like gossiping about other person's lives (she did not approve that comment)
he may have her husband back but with that kind of attitude, she should hold on him even tighter coz she may lose him again...
but i still wish her well... i hope she would be happy soon so she will stop criticizing other people's lives just to make it appear that hers was a good one...
lets just pray for her, good-anonymous... and again, thank you...
Lady I thought you had sent them all by accident and that they were all the same.
I have now published all your comments for you.
Are you saying Lady, that if your husband has cheated on you there must be something wrong with YOU, if a man is unable to find what it is he is looking for, if every challenge he wanted is met, if he feels bored, is that the wifes fault? If he is living in a fantasy world, not reality where kids housework and yes mundane creeps in is that also the wives responsibility to try and be perfectt so he doesnt stray?
Men and woman who cheat will ultimately have to be responsible for their action, if not here on earth definately in the next life.... I feel sorry for your Lady, you are dillusional if you truly believe what you are doing is ok. A vibrator meets your sexual needs without hurting others, that my dear is the point. If you fail to see that you are made of this world , not of the one I am aiming for..
get real...a vibrator gives friction and a small thrill...a man can give love, companionship, someone to snuggle up to at night, someone to share your dreams with. Technology is a great thing, but a vibrator will never replace a man
Well, now I'm totally confused here. I couldn't follow the story at all but what I do know is that it's quite true that what comes around goes around and if some ho slept with your man, she will get hers before you know it. I have such faith in karma that I can wait for years to say, "HA! I knew it'd happen to you bitch."
If the other woman is coming to your blog, she's already paying. Only a miserable wench would run around the internet chasing down the wife of the man she's screwing. If she was happy with your husband, she wouldn't be here...she'd be spending her time with him. Whatever she says, everytime she comes here, you can smile knowing that she's miserable so as long as she keeps coming back, you know she isn't enjoying her life one little bit. Her nastiness is proof of her miserable existence so when she pops in, smile, smile smile!
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Meg,
I think you are a little confused. It\'s your friend Shattered who\'s running around the internet looking for those persons she considers to be the immoral scum of the earth so that she can inflict her high and mighty attitude upon thier sinful souls.
I cant believe that you can get away with what you say on your blog, like the \"if I were an...\" post. I hope CL is taking legal action against you and solarisgil, and the 3 of you including shattered, need to get back into your miserable little boxes that your poor husbands were forced to leave, and stop judging other people!
Good anonymous,
I'd like to share a newspaper article with you because I think that you are confused about naming people on your site:
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Re: Putting a Person's Name on Your Website - As Long as What's Written is the Truth
From the Daily News:Gay man wins Internet fight vs. Falwell
BY ADAM LISBERGDAILY NEWS STAFF WRITER
A gay New Yorker won a big Supreme Court victory yesterday in his Internet battle against Moral Majority founder the Rev. Jerry Falwell.Christopher Lamparello, 36, won the right to keep his fallwell.com site, which criticizes Falwell's views on homosexuality - and often snares Web surfers looking for the reverend's online ministry at falwell.com.
"Rev. Falwell is completely wrong about people who are gay or lesbian," Lamparello's site says - under a red disclaimer that offers a link to Falwell's site. [...] Lamparello, who lives in Greenwich Village and has not spoken publicly about the case, has the free-speech right to run the "gripe site," said his lawyer, Paul Levy."A domain name is not just the source of a Web site, but the substance of a Web site," said Levy, whose group Public Citizen took the case for free. "You can say the name of the person you're criticizing, and you can put their name in the domain name of your Web site."
Falwell's lawyer had argued it was a simple case of trademark infringement - which disturbed many of the reverend's supporters, who went to the site by mistake - and that it opens the door to more abuses. Originally published on April 18, 2006
This applies in the US, I'm not sure where you are or what the laws are over there.
As the saying goes \"Only In America\", thank God the laws in my country are different
Good anonymous,
Why are you thanking God that the laws are different in your country?
With this statement, one can only assume - based on your own premise, that you yourself intend on doing something that you might become ashamed of if exposed to the public? Or perhaps you sympathize with those who would? I just don't understand how you can sympathize with the person who caused me the most pain.
I for one am very glad that the laws are as such. I'm glad that the government cannot restrict or censor by virtue of law, what the truth is, which we choose to say or in this case publish. This in itself constitutes an integral concept to what's called a healthy democracy.
It surprises me that you are not inline or disagree with fundamental human rights - regardless of the given circumstances.
I think you all are confusing the issues here.
People have a right to their privacy, regardless of whether you think what they've done is right or wrong. Do you think it would be right for someone to post that someone is gay if they are not "out" or to post that they have a disease or some other such thing that may cause them to be abused or discriminated against? But so long as it's the truth, right?
The "right to privacy" is very different from speaking or publishing even the truth. If it is a fact that someone is gay but that person herself has not disclosed this fact, and someone else publishes it, I believe that the publisher can be held liable.
Meg critized an email in her post titled, "If you were.." The mistress didn't have a confidentiality statement in her email.
SolarisGal, like I said, you all are getting your issues confused and dragging them all over here to Lady's website.
Regardless of what Meg said, who has a disclaimer and who doesn't, whether or not cheating is right or wrong...it still remains that it's really not cool to direct people to someone's blog so that people can hurl judgment and be rude. And before you bash ME, I've already talked to Shattered about my opinion on it.
S*,
Allright.
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