I will end this issue with these notes:
1. My apology for those who have been affected and/or insulted by the entries on this blog... i repeat, it is just here for me to express myself and not to please anyone... feel free to read and if you dont like it, you can leave anytime... thanks for visiting...
2. I am not perfect... im just human... i may be doing things that you, people, wont like but THIS IS ME... and this is MY LIFE... it may be unacceptable and immoral in your opinion (and i accept and respect that) BUT this is still MY LIFE and i am entitled to live it in any way i like it... please accept that... you cannot just change ALL the people in the world just because you know what is right and what is wrong... we also know that but because of uncontrollable reasons, we cannot or its hard for us to choose...
3. I am having an affair with a married man BUT i am not his mistress since i am not living with him... we rarely go out to be with each other and we only communicate thru E-Mail... and i have no intention or plan or whatsoever, to hurt his family or to make him leave his family... with or without me, things will still be the same for them...
4. I also believe in Karma but dont worry, people, coz i will be the one to face the consequences of my actions... NOT YOU...
5. This is very important.. . let me clear to all of you, especially to the the other anonymous who keeps on insisting that i use a vibrator... my affair with M existed because of LOVE and NOT just because of SEX... i have loved him even before i met my husband... i lost him because of my love to a friend... and i regret giving him up before so as not to hurt someone else's feelings... but until now, that LOVE for him keeps on burning which i can no longer control... i can be with him and be happy even without the sex... we've been together for almost 4 years and we only made love 3 times... I HAVE NOT AND WILL NEVER GIVE MYSELF TO ANYONE OR TO ANYTHING WITHOUT LOVE IN MY HEART... so keep your vibrator to yourself... i will never use that...
This will be the last time i would comment on this issue... Let's put it to rest... Just dont read my blog if it affects you... if it makes you angry or upset... or if you consider me immoral or a bad woman... i am not trying to be a friend to the whole universe... I AM JUST BEING ME... i am thankful for those who have accepted me or for those who cant accept but still respected me...
This is my story, my expression, my pains, my joys and my life... i opened it for you to read but not to change... you have your own... mind it..
Regards to all....
11 comments:
Well said.
Lady, you don't need to justify yourself to these unwanted commentors or to anyone else! This is supposed to be your place for free expression. I'm sorry that they have made you feel the need to defend yourself.
You are right - this is YOUR life and it is also YOUR blog. Don't let their anger and hate affect you - it is their problem, not yours!
No doubt shattered wont post this on her site, so I\'ll say it here.
Well said Lady and Jazzy.
And shattered, in your words \"It appears that a can of worms has been opened\"
Yes, and YOU opened it by doing something you had no right to do. Now get back in ya box!
i just cant help it... i do not want someone getting angry with me that way ... and judging me without basis... i have suffered enough... i just wanted to be happy for a while.. but you are correct... i should not mind people who comments... ok, THIS IS MY BLOG!!! ... i'll write whatever i want whenever i want...
Thanks, jazzy and good-anonymous...
Exactly. Like it sucks to be cheated on granted, but hating on other people who are cheating in their marriages isnt going to do anything constructive. Its not going to heal any pain. But that happens to people I guess, they experience something bad and see the whole world through that lense. Dont trip though. Keep expressing the unexpressable.
You don't have to justify your actions to anyone. Like you said, you are the one living your life and you are the one who has to deal with the consequences. Like I said on Shattered's blog, it's best not to judge people, even if you don't agree with what they're doing.
I spill my heart out on my blog because it's MY blog. It's hard to be open about your life and then have people judge you.
People who are nasty like that don't deserve a response. Ignore them. Live your life the way YOU WANT TO. You own it, not them and don't worry about what they think. Life is too short to live your life by someone elses rules, beliefs or morals. Trust yourself and your instincts and do what's best for you.
I came via Jazzy's blog and your comment. I need to take a little time to read, I will be back xx
She already removed her post with a link on my blog... Im really thankful this is over..
Wow! I didn't know all this hate has been slapped upon you! you don't deserve that! just ignore them! (hugs)
If you dont want to be judged dont air your dirty laundry...
hello, charlotte...
im airing my feelings because i want to... because it makes me feel better... because this is my blog and i can write here whatever i want...
you can judge me, people... but i will no longer comment back on your judgement... at least my blog interest you for you to read it...
thanks, anyway and Regards to all Mary's and Saints out there...
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